Big problems don't always need big solutions. Sometimes, it's the small stuff that can break a deadlock at the office, at the dinner table, or in conversations about politics.
Listening, letting go of control, and staying present even when things get tense are habits, we should learn says Adam Kahane. He's a conflict and peace negotiator who Nelson Mandela called to help South Africa when apartheid ended.
His 6th book is called Everyday Habits for Transforming Systems: The Catalytic Power of Radical Engagement.
Adam Kahane, author of Everyday Habits for Transforming Systems: The Catalytic Power of Radical Engagement Photo: Supplied